November 21, 2025
Putting money down before you even own the home can feel risky. If you are buying in Pembroke or greater Merrimack County, you want to know exactly how earnest money works and how to protect it. This guide breaks down typical deposit amounts, who holds the funds, and the contingencies that safeguard your money. By the end, you will know what is customary locally and the steps to keep your deposit secure. Let’s dive in.
Earnest money is a good-faith deposit that you include with your offer or shortly after both parties sign the purchase and sale agreement. It shows the seller you are serious and ready to move forward. If the transaction closes, your deposit is applied to your down payment or closing costs.
In New Hampshire, earnest money is typically held in escrow by one of the following: the listing broker in a trust account, a title company, a closing or escrow agent, or an attorney for one of the parties. The purchase and sale agreement should name the escrow holder clearly.
You should receive a written receipt that shows the amount, who is holding the funds, and the date received. The contract will also outline when the deposit must be delivered and how it can be released if the deal is canceled or completed.
Escrow holders in local practice include the listing brokerage’s trust account, a title company, or a closing attorney. Your contract should specify the exact party. Ask your agent to confirm the payee and delivery method before you move funds.
Get written confirmation when the deposit is made. The agreement should set the deposit deadline, often within a few business days of acceptance. It should also define the conditions for release, such as a mutual written release or a court or arbitration order.
Across many markets, earnest money often ranges from about 1 to 3 percent of the purchase price. For lower-priced homes, buyers sometimes offer a flat amount, such as 1,000 to 5,000 dollars. In a more competitive market, sellers may expect higher deposits.
In Pembroke and Merrimack County, the exact number depends on current competition and price point. Your agent will advise you on today’s local norms, such as whether multiple offers are common and how deposit size plays into a stronger offer.
These are illustrative examples. Your strategy should match the specific property, market conditions, and your comfort level.
In a tight market, sellers may prefer larger deposits and faster timelines. In a buyer’s market, smaller deposits can be acceptable. Balance the desire to stand out with the need to limit risk if the deal does not close.
Contingencies are your primary protection. They give you defined time to complete key steps and, if needed, to cancel while keeping your deposit when you follow the contract terms.
An inspection contingency lets you hire professionals to evaluate the home. If the inspection reveals issues you are not willing to accept, you can terminate within the inspection window as the contract outlines. When you follow the notice steps on time, your earnest money is typically refundable.
A financing contingency protects you if you cannot obtain your mortgage by the stated deadline. If your lender declines or terms are not met and you terminate properly within the timeframe, your deposit is usually returned. An appraisal contingency helps if the appraised value comes in below the contract price and no remedy is reached. If you end the contract under the appraisal terms and on time, you can generally keep your deposit.
A title contingency applies if there are title defects that cannot be fixed as the contract allows. If termination is permitted for uncured title problems, your deposit is refundable. If your offer includes a sale-of-home contingency and you follow the notice and timing requirements but cannot sell in time, your deposit can be released back to you.
Your deposit is most at risk if you remove contingencies and later cannot or choose not to close. Missing a deadline without proper notice can also put the funds at risk. In those cases, the seller may keep the earnest money as liquidated damages or pursue other remedies as the contract allows.
If you terminate outside a contingency period or without following the contract’s notice rules, you can lose protection. Track every date and keep your notices in writing to stay covered.
Contracts set specific timeframes to complete inspections, secure financing, and address appraisal or title items. When a contingency is removed in writing, or a deadline passes without action, you usually lose the ability to rely on that contingency. Use the contract’s notice method, such as email with read receipt, and keep confirmations.
If there is a disagreement about who gets the deposit, most contracts require a mutual written release, mediation, arbitration, or a court order before funds are disbursed. If the escrow holder is uncertain, they typically hold the funds until both parties agree in writing or a legal resolution directs the release.
Before you offer
When drafting your contract
During contingency periods
At closing or if canceling
Deposit norms shift with the market, and Merrimack County can vary by price point and property type. A local buyer’s agent will help you weigh a strong deposit against your risk tolerance and the protections you need. That balance helps you compete while keeping your money safe if the deal does not proceed.
If you want help setting the right deposit, writing clean contingency language, and tracking deadlines, you are not alone. Our team works with buyers across Pembroke and central New Hampshire to craft confident, competitive offers. For a one-on-one plan tailored to your goals, connect with Allison Driscoll today.
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